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Nervous System 101: Why Kids Can't "Just Calm Down"

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  Most parents have said, at one point or another, the words: “Take a deep breath.” “Calm down.” “Relax.” Even when said with the best intentions, those words can sometimes prove to be unhelpful and can escalate the situation. It can also feel confusing, frustrating, and discouraging. If your child can calm down sometimes, why can’t they do it now? Are they purposely not listening? Are they being dramatic? Maybe manipulative? The short answer to this is… not usually. When kids feel overwhelmed, their nervous system is the one driving the bus, and their attitudes, reasoning skills, and ability to listen take a back seat. Understanding what is happening in a child’s body during these moments of distress can completely change how we view their behavior and in turn, how we support them through it. What Happens in a Child’s Body When They’re Upset When a child becomes very upset, their body reacts to that stress automatically. This isn’t something they choose to do, and it also isn...

Basic Principles of Internet Safety with Children

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  I remember when I was a kid and my family first introduced major technology to our household. I was  thrilled  at the idea I could go online and find any information I wanted (granted, the internet was much younger and less advanced then, and the thing I was most excited about was popping the disc for  Nancy Drew: Treasure in the Royal Tower  into the computer and solving that mystery no less than 6 times). When I look back at this stage of my life, I remember the rules and guidelines my parents set for me and my siblings when it came to how we were allowed to use the computer, and admittedly, it feels like that was a lot simpler to execute then than it is now. The digital age we live in can be intimidating for a parent. Between social media, the internet, online gaming, and the constant availability of news and digital information, it can be overwhelming to manage as an individual adult, let alone as a parent acting as a gatekeeper for your children’s online ...

Signs of Autism Spectrum Disorder

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  Recognizing the signs of autism in children is crucial for early intervention and support, but it can often be a complex task. While autism can be diagnosed at any point in life, symptoms typically begin to emerge within the first two years. Autism, medically known as  Autism  Spectrum Disorder (ASD), exists on a “spectrum,”meaning that both the types of symptoms and their severity can vary widely from one individual to another. As a result, stereotypical or severe presentations may not always be visible, and more subtle differences in communication, executive functioning, social interactions, and behaviors may be present but harder to identify. In this article, we will explore 12 signs of autism in children, helping parents and caregivers to better understand and identify these indicators. By becoming aware of these signs, you can take proactive steps to help support your child’s unique needs. 1. Developmental Delay Not meeting developmental milestones on timeNot respo...

Understanding the Impact of Attachment Personally and Professionally

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  While I have been in the mental health field for over 15 years, I am always brought back to a statement that one of my instructors made. “You don’t know what you don’t know you don’t know.” It may help to read it out loud to get the full impact. After taking countless hours of classes, workshops, and training, I keep this in mind each time I approach a new situation. This was especially important when someone I was working with adamantly stated how important the foundation of attachment is on people’s emotions, thoughts, and reactions. Even more striking was their insight into how their own early experiences have influenced them throughout their life. This led me on a personal and professional journey to review the concept of attachment, and also how to attend to attachment wounds that people have experienced. To say that it is a complicated concept, is minimizing things. As you read the following information, consider your early relationships with caregivers, extended family mem...

Counseling for Children and Adolescents - Behavioral Health Clinic - Marshfield WI

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Ten Signs of ADHD

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  ADHD or attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder is characterized by persistent inattention and/or hyperactivity-impulsivity that affects functioning and development. ADHD emerges during childhood and has a high prevalence in children worldwide. Despite the commonality, signs can sometimes be subtle and easily overlooked. Just like any disorder, early identification is crucial for providing necessary support and strategies that will help your child thrive. In this article, we will explore ten early signs of ADHD in children, allowing parents to recognize potential indicators and take proactive steps when needed. Difficulty Sustaining Attention Children may struggle to stay focused on a task or conversation for more than a few moments, often moving quickly from one task or activity to another. Dislikes or Avoids Tasks Requiring Sustained Attention Children may show a tendency to avoid activities that demand prolonged concentration. Lacks Attention to Detail Frequent oversight of d...

Supporting Children with Developmental Disorders through Empathic Attunement

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  Navigating the complexities of developmental disorders in children requires not just a deep well of patience and love but also informed strategies tailored to their unique perspectives. This article, grounded in research demonstrating the importance of fostering strong and healthy attachment relationships, aims to guide caregivers in cultivating an environment that nurtures both the emotional and developmental growth of their child. As you read through the article, we hope that our examples will inspire you to find some unique ways to build healthy relationships with your children to help promote their emotional wellbeing. Understanding and Validation Embrace Emotional Awareness: Understanding and recognizing emotions are critical for all children, especially for those with developmental disorders who may find their own emotions confusing or overwhelming. Embracing emotional awareness lays the groundwork for effective navigation through these feelings, fostering resilience and se...

Will a Child with Autism Have a Normal Life?

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  Autism diagnosis can be daunting for some parents. Years of stigma and misunderstanding on what autism is has caused people to believe that children with autism will never have a “normal” life. Firstly, it is important to define what “normal” means. Normal is a very ambiguous word that can mean something different to each person. One might think a “normal” life is growing up, going to college, getting a job and raising a family. On the other hand, a “normal” life for someone else may be graduating high school, getting a job after graduating and traveling the world all on their own. For a child with autism, their “normal” is going to be vastly different depending on the child. However, it is very possible and likely for a child with autism to have a good and successful life. It is important to recognize that the ability of a child with autism to grow up and live on their own and take care of themselves depends on a wide variety of factors. According to Mark Wolmark from Golden Ste...

Nurturing a Fulfilling Life for Children with Autism

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  Introduction  Nurturing a Fulfilling Life for Children with Autism. Autism, or Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), is a neurological condition that affects communication, social interaction, and behavior. As awareness about autism has grown, so has our understanding of the incredible diversity within the autism spectrum. Many parents and caregivers of children with autism often wonder about their child’s future and whether they can lead a “normal” life. In this article, we will explore the concept of a “normal” life, celebrate neurodiversity, and discuss how children with autism can lead fulfilling and meaningful lives.  Redefining “Normal”  The term “normal” can be subjective and misleading when discussing the lives of children with autism. Autism is a spectrum, and each child’s experience is unique, ranging from mild to severe symptoms. Instead of seeking a predetermined notion of normalcy, it is essential to embrace neurodiversity and recognize that every individual...

Feeding and Swallowing Therapy

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  What is Feeding & Swallowing Therapy?  Feeding and Swallowing Therapy is a therapeutic service that instructs adults, families and children about how to overcome difficulties with picky eating and problem feeding. With adults, therapy focuses on regaining oral motor skills, rebuilding muscle strength and coordination, implementing positioning techniques, and diet modifications. Pediatric feeding therapy employs play and systematic desensitization approaches to increase a child’s sense of safety and comfort with foods.  So, who needs feeding/swallowing therapy?  Feeding & swallowing therapy is provided to adults who have lost eating/swallowing functions due to an acquired condition or trauma (a condition called Dysphagia). Children who receive feeding therapy typically struggle with picky eating, difficulties following mealtime routines and expectations, trouble with chewing, drinking, and/or swallowing, poor oral motor skills, and sensory aversions.  W...

Benefits of ADHD Testing for your Child

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  ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder) testing can provide several benefits for your child: Accurate Diagnosis: ADHD testing conducted by a qualified professional, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, can help determine whether your child meets the diagnostic criteria for ADHD. This involves a comprehensive evaluation of their behavioral patterns, attention span, impulsivity, and hyperactivity. A formal diagnosis can provide clarity and help guide appropriate interventions and support. Understanding Your Child’s Needs: ADHD testing can provide valuable insights into your child’s strengths and challenges related to attention and self-control. The assessment process examines various aspects of their functioning, including academic performance, social interactions, and emotional well-being. Understanding your child’s specific needs can assist in tailoring strategies and accommodations to support their development and success. Treatment Planning: If your child receives an...

Why Are Your Kids Having Meltdowns After School When Teachers Report Perfect Behavior In Class?

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  WAUSAU, Wis. (WSAW) — After a perfect behavior day at school, your kids return home and let their walls down. That’s when the meltdown comes. What some parents may not know is that this is completely normal and common. “Parents are not alone, a lot of kids go home and they are acting out more there,” said Luke Severt, licensed counselor at Behavioral Health Clinic of Wausau. Learn more at https://wibehavioralhealth.com

Local Counselor Encourages Veterans To Try a Different Form of Therapy

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  WAUSAU, Wis. (WSAW) — The United States withdrawal from Afghanistan may bring back past trauma for some veterans. That’s why a local licensed counselor, Luke Severt, wanted to tell them about an option for dealing with it. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing or EMDR, is a form of therapy that may be a good fit for veterans rehashing memories. If you’re interested in learning more about EMDR or scheduling an appointment contact Behavioral Health Clinic in Wausau   . Learn more at https://wibehavioralhealth.com  

Finding Peace in a Busy World

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  Where in the world have the past few months gone? Summer came and went before we knew it and Fall is ahead of us. Fall is my favorite time of year, not to hot and not to cold. The leaves change colors and everything pumpkin comes out. Yes, I am that girl, Pumpkin Spice Latte’s and let’s just be honest, anything pumpkin goes. This time of year, a lot changes, some good, some challenging. School is back in session, parents are running their kids from here to there and back again, attending sporting events and trying to keep up with the household chores. All on top of working, maintaining relationships, and trying to find time to make dinner and get enough sleep. Does this sound like you? Stress can create several changes to our personalities including irritability, lack of interest in taking care of our needs or appearances, social withdrawal and isolation, and procrastination or reduced work productivity. Stress can also create changes to our cognitive functioning including diffic...

How Do Our Bodies Cope With Changes in Daylight Saving Time

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  A bi-annual tradition since 1966 when the Uniform Time Act was enacted is happening this month whether we enjoy its benefits or not, changing our clocks to daylight saving time. The ritual when going to daylight saving time causes us to lose an hour of sleep, as our day will only be 23 hours long. That one hour we will lose will shift from morning to evening when daylight saving time begins. In 2007, our federal government specified that daylight saving time would apply from 2 a.m. on the second Sunday of March until 2 a.m. on the first Sunday in November. Those dates this year will be March 13th and November 6th. So how do our bodies cope with the changes in daylight saving time? Daylight saving time can affect many people, especially those who battle depression and anxiety. Other health effects from daylight saving time could even include heart attacks and increased headaches. With light changes throughout seasonal changes people have to try and adapt their schedules accordingl...

Trick or Treating: How Old is Too Old?

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It’s getting to be that time of year again; leaves are turning colors, decorations are on the shelves, and kids are thinking about upcoming costumes and candy. Halloween is a favorite holiday for many children (and adults) and it’s not hard to see why. Who wouldn’t like an excuse to go all-out with theatrics, dress-up, and then get free sweets on top of that? However, for many parents and guardians out there, this year might be the year you realize that your little one isn’t so ‘little’ anymore. So, when is it the right time to hang up the witch-hat and pumpkin basket? “Aren’t you a bit old to be trick or treating?” Parents are primed from pregnancy to make sure their child is meeting all of the right milestones and developmental stages in life. If they don’t get to these stages, it is easy to worry that something may be amiss in the child’s development, or that you’re not doing something correctly as a parent. However, unlike your child’s first steps and losing all their teeth, trick ...

When Can a Child Benefit from Therapy?

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I have a long standing history working with children in a variety of different contexts; I’ve always known my future career would involve helping children. It all started back in Bessemer, Michigan where I spent a lot of time hanging out with my “little” sister and the other kids in the neighborhood. They were all younger than me, but I enjoyed my time with them and I certainly enjoyed being the oldest (and in my mind, the smartest, obviously). My first job was working at a local church watching children during the service (if you don’t count babysitting) and this transitioned to a handful of jobs teaching infants, toddlers, preschoolers, and at the elementary school level. In recent years I have started to transition from teaching to providing therapy. Therapy brought forth my first experiences with adolescents, who I also fell in love with helping. Throughout the years in both career fields, I have been honored and blessed to meet many different children and their families and to get...

Child Counselor in Wausau

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Erinn McCabe, LPC, SAS, is a Licensed Professional Counselor with a Substance Abuse Specialty. She received her Master’s Degree in Mental Health Counseling from the University of Wisconsin-Stout. Erinn’s expertise includes providing individual, family, and couples therapy to address a wide variety of issues including anxiety, depression, relationship issues, LGBT struggles, parenting concerns, abuse and other trauma history, grief and loss, substance abuse, and other mental health concerns. Erinn provides play therapy for children ages 3 years and up and is trained in Theraplay-based methods to promote healthy attachment in children and adults. She is also trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) to help individuals that struggle with adjustment concerns and trauma. Erinn’s philosophy is grounded in interpersonal and cognitive behavioral therapy techniques, as well as mindfulness. Erinn is an open-minded individual who provides empathy and guidance to her clients...